Getting Rid of Worry

Worry is like a fog. If you want to get rid of worry and anxiety in your life, you need to get rid of the fog.

Have you ever been in a dense fog and tried to push it out of the way? You can push as much as you want, but more fog just rolls in behind it. You can’t move fog by pushing. It doesn’t work.

Likewise, you can’t rid yourself of worry and anxiety by saying, “Just don’t worry! Don’t be anxious!” You can’t push them out of the way. Some people even worry that they can’t rid themselves of worry!

What is worry?

Worry happens when your picture of what should be happening doesn’t fit the picture of what is happening. Or what should happen in the future doesn’t match what you believe will happen. Your “should” picture isn’t the same as your “is” picture. And when they’re not the same, you think, “Gee, that’s a problem. And if I don’t solve that problem, things could get even worse in the future.”

So you’re concerned about the current and future results. The pictures don’t match. And the farther apart those two pictures are, the more anxious you become.

What you need is for those pictures to be the same. You need to get rid of the fog.

How?

What gets rid of fog? Sunshine! The antidote for fog is the sun’s light and warmth. When the sun appears, the fog dissipates. It’s been replaced by bright sunlight.

You need some kind of sunlight to dissipate the fog of worry and anxiety. But what pushes worry away? What is the sunlight that will rid you of anxiety?

Joy is the sunlight

When you have joy, worry vaporizes. When you’re filled with joy, there’s no room for anxiety. Joy is like warmth and light for your heart. When you have joy in your heart, your “should” and “is” pictures are the same.

But how, exactly, do you get those pictures to be the same? How do you fill your heart with joy? Thinking, “I’ll be joyful!” seems as futile as, “Just don’t worry!” How do you make it happen?

Choose God

The solution is to let God change your “should” picture. Let Him take out your wants and replace them with His will. He then has the power to make that picture the “is” picture, too. Your pictures match, you are filled with joy, and worry and anxiety are gone.

When you’re filled with joy, there’s no room for anxiety. Joy is like warmth and light for your heart.

Sounds simple, right? But we both know it isn’t. The problem is that you have to deny yourself. You have to let go of your own desires. You must consider them unimportant and stop pursuing them.

That’s never easy, because those are self’s wants. And self is always opposed to God.

It all comes down to a choice. Will you choose your own goals and plans, along with worry and anxiety? Or will you submit to God’s goals and plans for you, resulting in joy and peace?

A small example

We recently had some repair work done in our house. After the plumber installed a new bathtub, it didn’t look right. Sure enough, when I checked that evening, it wasn’t installed correctly. That night I lay awake wondering how they would fix the problem. I thought of all kinds of issues arising from this potential mistake.

Then I realized I had the choice to not worry. It took a few minutes, but I finally turned this (really small, I admit) problem over to God and was soon asleep again. The next morning everything fell into place, the problem was solved, and it took no effort on my part.

Once again, God proved to me that he can handle anything. Even crooked bathtubs. Just imagine what He can do with a real problem!

Make the right choice

Jesus said to love God with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength (see Mark 12:28-31). With everything you are, have, and hope to be. Then you’ll have no capacity for loving self. If you love God fully, it’s a lot easier to deny yourself and commit completely to Him.

That’s the first step to eliminate worry. My next post will look at step two.

Question:
What’s the best thing about getting rid of worry?

I’d love to hear your thoughts on this. Please leave a comment below.

 

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Leslie Alfred - September 27, 2014

Of course, the best thing is the Peace that comes to you. Without peace, life is a constant struggle. But with it, your creative juices are able to FLOW….and life becomes a wonderful gift. When opportunities present themselves, the peace you have about you, allows you to embrace them. You are able to bear more fruit.
I was particularly glad that this was about worry, because after yesterday’s terrible beheading in America, I went to my Bible…looking for comfort…worry was attacking me. Comfort is in the Word.
Thank you, David.
Leslie

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sarah forrester - September 27, 2014

I love your daily posts. Esp. this one on “worry.” I would love to read one sometime on “getting rid of past negative experiences,” regrets over the past relationships, letting go of them. Self-forgiveness, I guess.

Thanks so much.

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David Rex Gosnell - September 27, 2014

Great point, Leslie! Joy and peace certainly go hand in hand. God is able to work through a connection with a clear channel, and peace is one of the best gifts He brings. Joy, peace, comfort, . . . . The list is quite long, isn’t it?

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David Rex Gosnell - September 27, 2014

Thanks, Sarah. I really appreciate your ideas, and I will definitely shed whatever light I can on that topic. Please pray for God to give me the words.

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[…] Last week I wrote that joy is the antidote to worry and anxiety. Joy comes when you deny self, love God fully, and commit to His purpose and goals for your life. Easier said than done, of course, but commitment to God’s purpose is critical for getting rid of worry. […]

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Three Reasons Not to Trust God • Mission:Oneness - April 30, 2015

[…] Last week I wrote that joy is the antidote to worry and anxiety. Joy comes when you deny self, love God fully, and commit to His purpose and goals for your life. Easier said than done, of course, but commitment to God’s purpose is critical for getting rid of worry. […]

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